Down time is not the name of the game.
Strivers achieve what dreamers believe.
Sleeping is forbidden at the age of 22. It's all work and no play.
Appearance is something you should definitely consider when you're going out. Have your girlfriend clip your nails or something like that.
Breaking up is a natural evolution when you try to figure out what you want in life. If you're with an individual who isn't moving in the same direction and at the same rate that you are, it ain't going to work.