Androgyny is not trying to manage the relationship between the opposites; it is simply flowing between them.
Androgyny refers to a specific way of joining the 'masculine' and 'feminine' aspects of a single human being.
The first half of life is spent mainly in finding out who we are through seeing ourselves in our interaction with others.
Is it sufficient that you have learned to drive the car, or shall we look and see what is under the hood? Most people go through life without ever knowing.